Take outs:
- Understanding where your money goes is essential to making smart financial decisions. By regularly tracking income and expenses, families can identify spending habits, avoid over spending, and stay aligned with their financial goals.
- Creating a family budget not only promotes transparency and teamwork but also reduces financial stress. It encourages intentional spending, supports savings goals, and helps plan for future expenses—from emergencies to retirement.
- Wealth-building doesn't happen overnight. Simple steps like setting up a budget, using apps or Excel to track progress, and reviewing finances regularly can have a powerful long-term impact. Involving your advisor ensures your strategy stays aligned and effective.
Master Your Money:
The First Step to Financial Clarity
Financial success isn't just about how much you earn — it's about how well you manage what you have.
When you understand where your money goes, you gain the power to decide where it should go.
Smart families don't leave their finances to chance — they understand what they have, what they spend on and where they are going. Tracking personal income and expenses can be incredibly beneficial for a family.
Here are 10 key reasons why you might want to consider creating a family budget and then tracking against actuals each month:
Improved Financial Awareness
- Understand where the money goes.
- Identify spending patterns and habits.
Saving Goals
- Allocate funds toward savings (e.g., emergency fund, holidays, retirement, tertiary education).
- Stay motivated by seeing progress toward goals.
Avoiding Overspending
- Prevent living beyond their means.
- Catch unnecessary or excessive spending early.
Emergency Preparedness
- Build and maintain an emergency fund.
- Be ready for unexpected expenses like medical bills or car repairs.
Debt Management
- Track debt payments.
- Plan strategies to reduce or eliminate debt.
Financial Planning
- Make informed decisions about major expenses (e.g., buying a house, car, or going on holiday).
- Plan for life events like having children or retirement.
- Greatly assist in conversations you have with your wealth advisor.
Tax Preparation
- Make tax season easier by having organised records of income and deductible expenses e.g. track investment property income and expenses–your tax agent will love you for it!
Reduces Stress and Conflict
- Promotes transparency and teamwork in managing family finances.
- Helps prevent arguments over money.
Teaches Financial Responsibility
- Sets a positive example for kids about managing money wisely.
- Encourages good habits for future generations.
Better Budgeting
- Helps create realistic monthly budgets.
- Ensures spending aligns with income and priorities.
What steps should you take?
Wealth-building doesn’t happen by accident — it starts with intention. By tracking where your money goes, you lay the groundwork for small, consistent steps that can lead to big financial wins over time.
If you’re ready to take control of your finances, here are some practical steps you can take today to gain real insights and start building strategies that fast-track your path to wealth creation:
1. Sign up for an income and expense tracking app
There are many out there but for those familiar with and fans of Xero, your Xero partner can sign you up for a $15pm plan that allows you to link your personal bank accounts, categorise income and expenses and generate cash flow reports.
Whilst many of these apps may seem intuitive, we would always suggest asking your advisor to help you get started. An hour of setup and training will be time well spent.
The best part is that any subscription costs are tax deductible. However, for those that are more cost-conscious, an excel spreadsheet can give the same results – it is just more time intensive, particularly in the set up.

2. Create a family budget
Set aside some time with your partner to map out a 12–24 month household budget. Excel is often the easiest place to start (we also have custom templates available to help get you going). Tailor the budget to reflect the income and expense categories specific to your household—every family is different.
Use this process to set short, medium, and long-term goals. It’s a great opportunity to come together and have honest conversations about where you are now and where you'd like to be in the future.
Keep in mind, a budget is simply a realistic estimate based on what you know today—it’s not meant to be perfect or rigid.

Once complete, share your budget with your financial adviser for their input and guidance.
Many tools, like Xero, allow you to import your Excel budget directly—making it easier to generate custom reports and track your progress against actual results.
3. Review and re-evaluate
Once you’re satisfied with your budget, lock in a regular time (monthly is ideal but at least quarterly) to compare your budget against actuals.
These meetings don’t have to be formal (a glass of wine can help) but are a great opportunity for your family to check-in, ensure you’re on track and agree on what tweaks you can make to ensure you’re still on track to achieve your goals.
Keep the meeting positive and collaborative, it is not a blame game but an opportunity to reconnect and re-evaluate.

Take the time to:
- review actual income and expenses against budget.
- review goals and tasks from the previous meeting – how did you go?
- discuss any upcoming costs and ensure you have sufficient cash in place.
- identify any expenses where you may want to shop around for better deals e.g. household insurance.
- review what subscription costs you’re currently paying for and close down any that you’re no longer using. If you subscribe to Netflix, Stan, Prime etc, can you pause the subscription whilst you catch up on a series on another platform?
- review what interest rates you’re receiving on savings. Are there better products on the market that would yield you a better return?
- review what interest rates you’re paying on any properties you may own. Speak to a mortgage broker to see if there are better deals out there.
- review your credit cards and try to consolidate any ‘bad’ debt into one monthly repayment, thereby saving on fees and interest.
- share any insights with your wealth advisor and ask for their opinion.
- review your goals and ensure they’re still relevant.
- set your family goals and tasks to tick-off before your next meeting.
Reach out to the Kelly+Partners team if you require help with the set-up of your family budget and ongoing income and expense tracking.
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